All About Orgasms
Orgasms are thought of as the final destination of every sexual encounter. Ironically, the pressure we put on ourselves to have orgasms can seriously get in the way of us having them. If we spent less time worrying about orgasms and more time learning about them (that’s hands on and hands off learning) chances are we’d all be closer to having the kind of sexual pleasure, including orgasms, that most of us crave.
Make Her Ejaculate
Some women don’t know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others – those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.
The Female Orgasm
The female orgasm continues to be the subject of intense scientific debate. Doctors puzzle over the different means by which women can achieve orgasm, and the things that can prevent orgasm in women.
The Male Orgasm
Men achieve orgasm through a series of steps involving a number of organs, hormones, blood vessels, and nerves working together. The end result is ejaculation of sperm through strong muscle contractions.
How To: Fake An Orgasm
When we think of fake orgasms, most of us think of women acting out a climax (you know, like Meg Ryan’s scene in When Harry Met Sally), but AM’s 2008 Great Male Survey revealed that 23% of respondents have faked an orgasm more than once. While the majority (47%) of you responded, “No, why would a man need to fake an orgasm?”
Orgasm Myths
We’ve come a long way since the days when science doubted the existence of the female orgasm. Today, a woman’s sexual satisfaction is a major field of study and the average couple has spent a great deal of time trying to improve her experience. This is certainly appreciated, but some of you may be trying too hard; her level of satisfaction may already be everything she could hope for.
Guarantee Her an Orgasm
For the 75 percent of women who don’t always reach orgasm during intercourse, this happens all the time. If you’re able to do something to a woman that feels so incredibly good that she completely relaxes and lets go, you’re highly likely to make that woman climax.
Sexual Satisfaction: You Know You Want It
And thus concluded yet another of hundreds of similar conversations I’ve had with my girlfriends about, how to tell a guy you didn’t come and then help him help you. Because as it turns out, about a third of women don’t orgasm during intercourse.
